kmanmx
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Me and you kman are in the same boat. Depression and Women problems or I can say on my behalf lack of women.
Some times I look at nice looking Women and I think, I would be any thing and anyone for you. I would give you anything I could. That special feeling with a nice \ good woman is what I have learned more important than money and I'm a former gambling addict.
kman everyone wants money. Everyone wants to be successful and everyone wants to be happy. Money in our day and age is very important for living a good quality of life but that special person who can or has brought a smile to my face when I have been unwell with stress or just depressed is more important than at the time the £1000 I had in my pocket.
As of thinking about hanging your self as I don't know what's behind you feelings of low mood if you have went down that road of 10 too even 20 years in the future of your life. Like Omo said try a dating site. It could work. You've got more going for you than me but I'm trying like hell at the minute to find someone I'm compatible with.
I look around and realise I have nothing special to offer to any woman, I dont have a big social group but know plenty of guys smarter/richer/funnier/cooler/better looking/better shape/better dressed etc so it seems somewhat futile to make any sort of attempt. Kind of a "well why would anyone choose me when this guy opposite is single and bests me in multiple areas" kind of thing. I still enter the lottery so I can win money, but if I won the £112m euromillions tonight and someone said I can trade it for wife and kids with just a decent but normal job, I would do it without much hesitation.
Would you really though? It's a lot of effort to put in - easy to think it wishfully without actually doing anything, but long term having to put someone else first day after day for years takes commitment and effort.
If you really feel that way tho, I'd say start making the changes you'd think *insert potential woman* wants to see anyway.
E.g. get fit, or learn how to cook, or anything that a fellow human being would see as a plus in a partner the whole attraction thing works both ways. Those nice looking women put in an effort to look nice and be in shape, wear clothes that fit well, etc. Gotta put in the effort on your part as well!
You gotta have the genuine beleif that doing those things will actually work and make a difference though..